Thursday, October 22, 2009

Respect and Love for our Parents?

My mother had only one eye, I hated her as I was ashamed of her
She was a cook in the school cafeteria where I studied.

One day, when I was still in a primary class,
She came to visit me to see for herself that I was all right.
I was very upset, how dare she do this to me?
After that incident I ignored her & looked on her
Only with hateful eyes….
The next day, a fellow-student told me,
"Oh, your mother has only one eye!"
At that moment, I wanted to crawl under the floor
And that my mother would be out of my life completely.
The next day I went to meet her & to tell here:
" because of you I am the joke at school,
Why don't you go away!
But, she did not respond….
I wasn't thinking and did not know what I was saying,
I was very angry. I could not imagine
how she would react to my remarks.
And, I left town.

I studied relentlessly and obtained a scholarship
to continue my studies abroad.
In fact, I completed my studies, got married, bought a house
and set up my family. I lived a happy and a peaceful life.

One day, my mother came to visit me.
It has been many years since we had got separated;
She had never met her grandchildren.
She remained at the doorstep
While my children were making fun of her
I shouted at her: " How dare you come all the way here and
frighten my kids? With a calm voice she responded:
"I apologize, I am at the wrong address."
And she disappeared.

One day, I received an invitation from my hometown school to
attend a reunion under the "close family ties" topic.


I lied to my wife and made her believe that I was traveling
for business.

After the school reunion I stopped by the house
where I grew up.


The neighbors informed me that my mother had passed away.
I did not shed even one drop of tear!!!

The neighbor handed me a letter
that my mother had left for me
"My Dear son, I always thought of you.
I regret having visited you abroad
And frightened your kids
…I was very pleased when I heard that
you would come to attend the school reunion

The only thing was that I could not get up
from my bed to come and see you….
… I am broken-hearted that I brought
shame to you on numerous occasions…

Did you know that when you were a baby
you had an accident and lost one eye?
… and, as any other mother would,
I would not let you grow up with only one eye….
So. I gave you my eye…
I was very proud and happy to know that my son would be able
to see the world with my eye

With all my love…
…your mother….

But now it was 'too late' for the son to do anything!

"It is one of the greatest sins that a man should not respect his parents."